Group grief workshops

Gentle, theme-based workshops held in community.

Group Grief Workshops offer a supportive space to explore grief alongside others who understand what it means to live with loss. Each workshop centres around a specific theme, creating a shared focus while leaving room for personal reflection and connection.

Grief Waves and the Swirl

A 90-MINUTE GRIEF INTEGRATION WORKSHOP

Grief rarely moves in a straight line. You can feel steady in the morning and undone by the afternoon, and it can leave you wondering whether you’re “going backwards”. In this workshop, we’ll make room for the reality of grief as it is: changeable, intelligent, and often triggered by the smallest things. This is not about controlling grief or forcing acceptance. It’s about learning how to recognise a wave when it arrives, soften your fear of it, and come back to yourself with a little more trust.

“When we expect grief to be linear, we panic at the waves. When we understand oscillation, the waves become more survivable.”

What we’ll do:

  • A gentle grounding to settle the body
  • One guided reflection exercise: “My grief wave map”
  • Optional sharing (you can pass)
  • A short both/and script + closing grounding

This may suit you if:

  • You feel confused by good days followed by crashes
  • Triggers leave you feeling startled or ashamed
  • You want steadiness without pressure to “progress”

Not the right fit if:

  • You need urgent or crisis-level support right now
  • A group setting feels unsafe for you at this moment

REFLECTION:

“What helps me ride a wave without judging myself?”

The Weight in the Body

A 90-MINUTE GRIEF INTEGRATION WORKSHOP

Grief is not only emotional. It lives in the body. It can show up as fatigue that doesn’t make sense, heaviness in the chest, restlessness, tightness, or a fog that makes everything feel harder than it should. This workshop offers a gentle, grounded way to understand the body’s response to loss, without pathologising it. We’ll practise meeting your nervous system with care, so the body doesn’t have to shout quite so loudly to be heard.

“When something meaningful is taken away, your system often moves into protection mode. This isn’t weakness. It’s the body responding to love and loss.”

What we’ll do:

  • Arrival grounding (no forcing calm)
  • One guided integration exercise: “Body messages, kind responses”
  • Optional paired witnessing (2 minutes each)
  • Both/and script + closing grounding statement

This may suit you if:

  • You feel tired, tense, foggy, or “not yourself”
  • You’re functioning, but it costs you a lot
  • You want a steadier relationship with your body during grief

Not the right fit if:

  • You need medical advice (this is not medical care)
  • You need urgent support beyond what a workshop can hold

REFLECTION:

“What is my body asking for, gently, this week?”

Anniversaries, Dates, and Sudden Drops

A 90-MINUTE GRIEF INTEGRATION WORKSHOP

Sometimes grief doesn’t arrive as a big feeling, it arrives as a date, a place, a song, a season, or a familiar smell. Anniversaries and “ordinary” triggers can bring sudden drops that feel unfair, especially when you thought you were doing okay. This workshop is a compassionate space to prepare for grief spikes without trying to outsmart them. We’ll create a simple, personal plan for tender days, including what to avoid, what to ask for, and what helps you come back to ground.

“Triggers are not proof you’re stuck. They’re often the mind and body recognising meaning. Planning support is a form of self-trust.”

What we’ll do:

  • Grounding + gentle check-in
  • One integration exercise: “My tender-day plan”
  • Optional sharing (witnessing only, no advice)
  • Both/and script + closing grounding

This may suit you if:

  • You dread certain dates or seasons
  • You get knocked sideways by “small” reminders
  • You want a plan that doesn’t invalidate your grief

Not the right fit if:

  • You are currently in acute crisis and need immediate support

REFLECTION:

“What support would feel kind on the days I already know are hard?”

Love Without Suffering as Proof

A 90-MINUTE GRIEF INTEGRATION WORKSHOP

Many grieving people carry an invisible rule: that if they feel okay, laugh, rest, or enjoy something, it must mean the person mattered less. This can create guilt, fear, and a sense of betrayal, even when nothing about your love has changed. In this workshop, we’ll gently explore the loyalty narratives that keep you trapped, and we’ll practice a new kind of permission, one that honours your bond without asking you to pay with constant pain.

“Attachment is love. Sometimes the nervous system confuses “living” with “letting go”. We’ll separate love from suffering-as-proof.”

What we’ll do:

  • Safety container + grounding
  • One integration exercise: “Loyalty beliefs, kinder truths”
  • Optional paired witnessing (2 minutes each)
  • Both/and script + closing grounding statement

This may suit you if:

  • You feel guilty when you have a lighter moment
  • You fear that healing means forgetting
  • You want language that honours the bond and your life

Not the right fit if:

  • Group discussion about guilt feels too activating right now

REFLECTION:

“What would loyalty look like if it didn’t require suffering?”

The World Didn’t End, But It Changed

A 90-MINUTE GRIEF INTEGRATION WORKSHOP

After loss, the world can look the same on the outside, but feel unfamiliar on the inside. You might return to routines and still feel like you’re living in a different life. It’s not always sadness. Sometimes it’s disorientation, numbness, or a quiet sense of “where do I belong now?” This workshop offers a gentle way to name what changed, without forcing meaning too soon. We’ll explore what you’re adjusting to, what you’re carrying, and what you might need as you reorient in a world that is not the one you expected.

“Meaning isn’t a bright slogan, it’s something slowly rebuilt. This is about respectful reorientation, not replacing what was lost.”

What we’ll do:

  • Grounding + check-in
  • One integration exercise: “What changed / what I need now”
  • Optional sharing (pass allowed)
  • Both/and script + closing grounding

This may suit you if:

  • Life feels strange, flat, or unfamiliar
  • You feel disconnected from your old routines or identity
  • You want a gentle structure to make sense of change

Not the right fit if:

  • You need a crisis container rather than a reflective workshop

REFLECTION:

“What is one small way I can meet this changed world with kindness?”

A Life That Holds Both

A 90-MINUTE GRIEF INTEGRATION WORKSHOP

There can come a moment when you sense you want to live again, but you don’t know how to do that without feeling disloyal, or without leaving love behind. This workshop is not about “moving on”. It’s about learning how to carry love and loss together in a life that can hold both. We’ll explore what “a wider life” could mean for you, without forcing readiness. The focus is gentle future-building that honours your bond, your truth, and your pace.

“Integration means you don’t erase love to keep living, and you don’t have to suffer to prove what was real.”

What we’ll do:

  • Grounding + check-in
  • One integration exercise: “My both/and life sketch”
  • Optional paired witnessing or group share
  • Both/and script + closing grounding statement

This may suit you if:

  • You feel ready for small steps forward, but it’s complicated
  • You want to explore what life can hold now, without pressure
  • You want hope that doesn’t invalidate grief

Not the right fit if:

  • The idea of future-oriented reflection feels too raw right now

REFLECTION:

“What is one gentle step that supports my life while honouring my love?”

Available spaces

We occasionally open morning or weekend sessions based on demand. Please inquire if you need this and we’d be happy to add you to our waiting list.

Pricing & Bundles

Early Bird (First 3 places)

£55

Single Workshop

£65

Any 2 Workshops

£115

Any 3 Workshops

£165

*Early bird and bundle offers cannot be combined.

Workshop dates

Grief waves and Swirl

March 20, 2026

March 27, 2026

The Weight in the Body

Anniversaries, Dates, and Sudden Drops

April 03, 2026

Love Without Suffering as Proof

April 17, 2026

The World Didn’t End, But It Changed

April 24, 2026

A Life That Holds Both

May 01, 2026

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“No matter which support you choose, the heart of Held & Shine remains the same: you will be heard, respected, and gently supported. You don’t have to carry this alone.”

Not sure where to begin? That’s completely okay.

You’re welcome to book a free introductory call, and we’ll explore what feels right for you.